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Sexy Jenga

Get your blocks out to get your rocks off...You are probably already familiar with the game Jenga, but if you're not then it is a fairly straightforward game that is surprisingly fun: the premise is simple, build a tower using the provided wooden building blocks, and then remove pieces one at a time while stacking them back on top (no removing the top level of pieces!). The game has two tense stages to it, removing more and more pieces naturally leaves the tower more precarious so taking them out can be a challenge, but then adding the removed piece to the ever more unstable tower is just as likely to cause a collapse. Gameplay continues until one player knocks the tower down, declaring the other player the winner. It's easy to understand but great fun.

Taking blocks and making them sexy

So how do we take that game and make it something a bit more exciting? The good news is that it is incredibly easy, that being said there is a little preparation. A standard set of Jenga should have 54 blocks in it, but there can be some variance depending on where it came from - if your set is smaller then you can just ignore the extra options, but if your set is larger then you may need to add on a few extras or just wrap around and use some blocks as duplicates (so number 55 = 1, 56 = 2 etc.). You can write these prompts onto the blocks if you wish, but I recommend simply numbering the blocks so you can play multiple different rulesets with the same set of pieces. Write the number of the prompt on the bottom, to keep it a surprise until it is drawn, and I'd recommend using a marker pen, try to avoid anything that might change the profile of the block like stick-on labels, as these can interfere with the game as you try to play...

When playing you can pick a single list to work from, or use all of the lists on offer; you can play one list until the tower collapses, then reset and start the next one! In the interest of keeping things fun, consider having a forfeit that lets players skip draws - things like making them draw another block immediately, taking a shot or even rolling the punishment dice...

Our rulesets

Getting Started Edition

Fun openers, exciting questions - start clothed!

  1. Distract your partner without touching them while they draw their next brick.
  2. Distract your partner with gentle intimate touches while they draw their next brick.
  3. Distract your partner with your mouth while they draw their next brick.
  4. Distract your partner by narrating their every action from now until the end of their turn.
  5. You have to wear handcuffs for your next 4 turns.
  6. Bite your partner, they choose where and how they want it.
  7. Using your mouth, make your way from your partner’s wrist to their ear.
  8. Get a hickey, anywhere on you, your choice.
  9. Take one or two of your partner’s fingers and lick/suck on them.
  10. Kiss anywhere on your partner’s currently available skin.
  11. Nibble gently on each one of your partner’s fingertips. The more seductive the better!
  12. Make out, let your hands focus on their upper body.
  13. Make out, let your hands focus on their butt.
  14. Make out, let your hands focus on their lower body.
  15. Describe your partner’s genitals to them in as vivid and juicy detail as you can.
  16. Sit or stand behind your partner and use your mouth to tease their ear while your hands explore their body over their clothes.
  17. Draw a cute little heart on your partner's butt.
  18. Hands down your partner’s pants, explore whatever you can touch without removing any clothes.
  19. Makeout session.
  20. Get your lips super close without touching them for 30 seconds.
  21. Have your partner hide this brick someplace in the room, not on their person. Find the piece by playing “hot and cold” with orgasm sounds only.
  22. Slow dance to a song of your choice together.
  23. Save this brick. You may give it to your partner at any point during any of their future turns to reverse the rolls of the action they have selected. (For example, instead of your partner receiving a massage, they must now give you one.) Once completed, they must return this brick to the tower as well as the brick from their current turn.
  24. Blindfold yourself and play a round of "Marco Polo". When you catch them, remove an item of their clothing (while still blindfolded).
  25. Decorate your favourite body locations on your partner using caramel or chocolate sauce, then clean them up, using your mouth.
  26. While your partner looks away, hide a small object like a coin anywhere on your body. Now they have to frisk you and find it without removing any of your clothes.
  27. Find some music and make out with your partner for the whole song.
  28. Stand up and point to any location on your body and say a single-word mouth-type action, (lick, suck, spit, bite, kiss, pull, etc), your partner must use only their mouth to follow each command. You have 10 commands to use, but lose one command per item of clothing you are currently wearing.
  29. Play sock wrestling. First to remove the other person’s socks wins 1 bonus point (You can put socks back on if you have already removed them).
  30. Draw or write something sexy/provocative on your partner’s body, wherever they choose.
  31. Put on a blindfold and block your ears, your partner has 30 seconds to hide within the room (or house) and then starts a 5-minute timer for you to find them while still blindfolded. Once the hider has picked a spot, they're not allowed to move their feet. If you find them in time you get to remove an article of their clothing (still blindfolded), but if you don’t find them in time, they get to remove an article of your clothing.
  32. Get your partner to pose, then take a suggestive photo of them.
  33. Take a selfie while your partner distracts you “out of frame”.
  34. Document by video your partner’s next turn and the actions following.
  35. Take your cutest butt selfie.
  36. Go Commando - (Replace any clothes after removing underpants.)
  37. Remove an article of your clothing, their choice.
  38. Remove an article of their clothing using only your mouth, your choice.
  39. Each of you must remove an item of your own clothing as quickly as possible. If you’re already naked, you may instead put on an item of your clothing.
  40. Put 1 article of your clothing back on.
  41. Blindfold yourself, then remove one article of your partner’s clothing.
  42. Question: What non-sexual part of your body turns you on the most when your partner touches it right?
  43. Trace a lewd word of your choice anywhere on your partner's body
  44. Remove an article of your clothing, and put it on your partner.
  45. Question: If you could have one sexual superpower, what would it be? When and how would you use it the most?
  46. Have a make-out and dry-hump session.
  47. Remove an article of your partner's clothing, without using your hands.
  48. Question: Describe your partner’s in-bed personality in three words. (Can’t be words you’ve used to describe them )
  49. Sit behind your partner and feel them up.
  50. Question: If we could only have sex in one position for the next month, what position would you pick? (If you have answered this before, pick a different position!)
  51. Help your partner moisturise the body parts of their choice.
  52. Flash your partner.
  53. Spend a little time doing some over-the-clothes heavy petting.
  54. Question: What’s the hottest sex dream or fantasy/imagination you’ve ever had?

Hot & Heavy Foreplay Edition

Getting more exciting, remain clothed, if you played the 'Getting Started' list first, stay with whatever clothing you ended with...

  1. Distract your partner visually while they draw their next brick.
  2. Distract your partner with gentle intimate touches while they draw their next brick.
  3. Distract your partner with your mouth while they draw their next brick.
  4. You have to wear handcuffs for your next 4 turns.
  5. Give your partner the biggest hickey you can, wherever they choose.
  6. Your partner sucks and licks your genitals, trying to make it as wet all over for at least 15 seconds, now stop sucking and start blowing air GENTLY over it.
  7. Kiss, lick or nibble any one location on your partner’s currently available skin.
  8. Have your partner lift their shirt then lightly run just your lips over their chest, no licking or sucking.
  9. Starting from their forehead, kiss your way slowly down your partner’s body to their nipples.
  10. Lower your partner’s pants, then kiss and lick their inner thighs only.
  11. Have your partner suck on your finger, then use that finger to gently trace around the edge of their nipple. Now use another finger for their other nipple too.
  12. Your partner lays on their back while you pick one of their legs off the ground and kiss their inner thigh slowly from knee to as high as is currently naked.
  13. Hold your partner’s head with both of your hands, gently guide their mouth anywhere you want to all over your body, but no longer than 5 seconds before you change location. (No removing extra clothing)
  14. Have your partner insert a butt plug in your ass or put a cock ring on you for this turn.
  15. Apply generous amounts of lubricant to your partner’s cock or pussy using one hand, while the other hand firmly holds onto their butt.
  16. Your partner stands over you masturbating, while you lie there only watching - no touching!
  17. Imagine a spot on your body and you're partner has to find it with kisses. Guide them with the words: cold - warmer - hot
  18. Makeout session.
  19. Your partner ties your hands behind your back, then using only your mouth, do anything you want to them for 30 seconds.
  20. Use a “toy”. Their choice of what, where and on who it is used. 30 seconds.
  21. Using only your partner’s hand/s, apply some lube then stimulate yourself for 30 seconds.
  22. Using your hands only, stimulate your partner, while they do the same to you. 30 seconds.
  23. Your partner must lay on their stomach with their feet in the air behind them. Without removing clothing, do anything with them you want for 30 seconds.
  24. Your partner lays down on with their pants (if still wearing any), around their knees and legs in the air, you perform oral on them for 30 seconds.
  25. Stand in front of a mirror with your partner in front of you and with them holding their arms above their head. Use your hands to explore all over their body, under or over clothes, for 30 seconds.
  26. Both players sit or kneel on the floor. The partner in front reaches behind them to play with their partner's genitals while they reach around and plays with the partner in front.
  27. Sit behind your partner, using only your saliva for lube masturbate them for 30 seconds.
  28. Remove an article of your clothing, their choice. If naked, replace an article of your clothing, also their choice.
  29. Remove an article of your own clothing. If naked, play with yourself until your next turn.
  30. Remove an article of your partner’s clothing. If naked, they play with themselves until your next turn.
  31. Each of you must remove an item of your own clothing as quickly as possible. If you’re already naked, you must instead put on an item of your clothing.
  32. Remove your partner’s underwear using just your mouth, if they’re already not wearing any, you must instead remove an item of your clothing, their choice.
  33. Have your partner blindfold you and then, while you cannot see, they hide this brick somewhere on their body. You must use only your mouth to find the piece by playing “hot and cold”, they must guide you with orgasm sounds only.
  34. Find some music, give your partner a lap dance.
  35. Your partner must lie down on their back with their shirt up over their face and any pants pulled down around the knees. Hold an ice cube in your mouth, and move it anywhere you want over their body until it melts.
  36. Find some slow, sexy music, make out and slowly grind together.
  37. Sexy thumb wrestling, use your free hand to distract by any sexual means necessary.
  38. Blindfold yourself and play a round of "Marco Polo". When you catch them, remove an item of their clothing (while still blindfolded).
  39. Hold your partner’s head and/or hair and guide their mouth anywhere you want to all over your body, at each location say the word for the action their mouth should perform, (lick, suck, spit, bite, kiss, etc).
  40. Exit your house through a door or window, enter through a different one - bonus points if you are naked!
  41. Have your partner stand with legs spread and their arms above their head or in front of their body with their fingertips touching together. Place 5 coins or small objects like dice, one between each pair of their fingertips. You may now pleasure them using any method for as long as you like - no dropping!
  42. Draw or write something sexy/provocative anywhere on your partner’s body.
  43. Decorate your favourite body locations on your partner using caramel or chocolate sauce, then clean them up using your mouth.
  44. Pose your partner, then take an anonymous erotic photo of them.
  45. Your partner lies down on their front or back, take a close-up photo of their body that makes it look like a landscape.
  46. Describe your partner's pussy or cock in detail. Now take a photo of it that highlights it best.
  47. Make a short video of yourself demonstrating how best to please your partner with your mouth, provide detailed instructions for an alternate version of yourself who has never given head.
  48. Your new mission is to document by video your partner’s next turn and the following action. With narration.
  49. Strip your partner down to nothing but their top, and have a wet t-shirt moment - get them good and soaked, then help them towel off. Return any clothing not currently drenched.
  50. If your partner's nipples are on show, give them a gentle suck. If their nipples and genitals are on show, give them a bite instead!
  51. Perform oral on your partner for 30 seconds, through whatever clothing they are still wearing...
  52. Pin your partner against a wall and have your way with them for 30 seconds.
  53. Hump/Grind on your partner for 30 seconds.
  54. Grind your ass/genitals into your partner's face.

The Grand Finale Edition

If you aren't naked already then get to it. Try to maintain physical contact at all times during the game, you can gently distract at all times - but no touching their genitals unless a piece tells you to! When the tower finally falls, give it to the player who didn't knock the tower down and they can use it to create their grand finale. Make this round last even longer by utilising dildos and toys as well as your own anatomy for an extra-long final round.

  1. You must give your partner oral sex while they draw their next 3 pieces.
  2. Your partner must give you oral sex while you draw your next 3 pieces.
  3. Distract your partner by playing with yourself while they draw their next piece.
  4. Distract your partner by playing with their genitals while they draw their next piece.
  5. Distract your partner by using a vibrator on their genitals while they draw their next piece.
  6. Stand behind your partner, one hand on their chest and the other on their genitals all while maintaining eye contact for as long as possible.
  7. Without kissing, stimulate two parts of your partner’s body at once. Use your hands on one part and lips on another.
  8. Hold your partner’s head and/or hair and guide their mouth anywhere you want to all over your body, but no longer than 10 seconds before you change location.
  9. Have your partner insert a butt plug in your ass for the next 3 turns or put a cock ring on you.
  10. Heavily apply lubricant to your partner using only your own genitals. No hands or penetration allowed.
  11. Try to make your partner orgasm using only your chest or ass.
  12. Get into a 69 position, you on top. The person on bottom must use their hands, and the person on bottom must use their mouth - show each other a good time!
  13. Have your partner stand and either insert or balance a vibrator in/on their genitals (or ass!) turn it on and see how long they can hold onto/balance it without touching with hands or clamping their legs shut!
  14. Lie down on your back, have your partner climb on top facing your feet with their legs on either side of your chest. Now they must suck/lick your genitals without using their hands, while you count aloud for 30 seconds and also aren’t allowed to touch them.
  15. 69, you on bottom. 1 minute only.
  16. Have your partner face-sit you, they must keep their hands in the air while slowly counting aloud to 30 seconds.
  17. Fuck as hard as possible for 10 seconds.
  18. Have your partner lie on a table on their back while you have penetrative sex, but no thrusting! Flex your muscles only...
  19. Have your partner sit on the edge of a chair, while you kneel in front of them - perform oral on them without breaking eye contact.
  20. Stand face to face, and after applying plenty of lube to yourself only, hold each other by the arms or back and grind yourselves together to share the lube (without penetration), for 30 seconds on the timer.
  21. Play with yourself erotically in front of your partner for 20 seconds, while they kneel in front of you with their face as close as they can, without touching you. After the first 20 seconds, they take over however they want for a final 20 seconds.
  22. Place 20 small objects in two easily reached piles of 10, and start some music. When you “Kiss” your opponent anywhere but their mouth, you may then move an item from their pile into yours, while they’re doing the same thing to you. “Kisses” are any sexy mouth action on their body that lasts at least 5 seconds and can’t be in the same location. The game ends when the song stops. Compete to have the most pieces in your pile by the end!
  23. Find some music, very slowly fuck together. Your choice of position.
  24. You have 10 minutes to tie up your partner as your prisoner, (can be just on the floor or to an object like the bed or a chair). They then have 5 minutes to try to escape. If they fail, you get to punish them appropriately, if they escape, they get to have their revenge on you with a punishment of their choice...
  25. Flip a coin, if it lands on heads, your partner has to give you head for 2 mins on the timer; if it lands on tails, you have to go down on them instead. Flip, lick, repeat. End if someone gets three in a row.
  26. Find some music, slow fuck together. Your partner’s choice of position.
  27. Hold your partner’s head and/or hair and guide their mouth anywhere you want to all over your body, at each location say the word for the action their mouth should perform, (lick, suck, spit, bite, kiss, etc).
  28. Draw or write something sexy/provocative anywhere on your partner’s body (that isn’t visible when clothed).
  29. Play sock wrestling! Wear one sock each. First to remove the other person's sock wins 1 bonus point.
  30. Have your partner stand with legs spread and their arms above their head or in front of their body with their fingertips touching together. Place 5 coins or small objects like dice, one between each pair of their fingertips. You may now pleasure them using any method for as long as you like - no dropping!
  31. Play a game of "you can't get out from under me", which involves one partner on top, with penetration, with the bottom partner trying to escape.
  32. Reenact your last sex or oral position with your partner, this time take a short video of the action.
  33. Reenact your last sex or oral position with your partner, take a few photos of the best moments.
  34. Take a selfie demonstrating how best to please your partner with your mouth.
  35. Document by video your partner’s next turn and the following action.
  36. Go into a private room and record a video just for them.
  37. Go online and find something smutty, reenact it for 1 minute!
  38. Fully restrain your co-player, blindfold and gag them and use toys however you want for 5 minutes.
  39. Immortalise some artwork on and/or near their genitals.
  40. Document all of the things you’ve drawn on your opponent, if nothing, let them draw on you!
  41. Plan for next time – your play partner must buy you a new toy or outfit for next time!
  42. Hands-free penetration - one partner stands in front of the other, face-to-face or face-to-back, and generously applies lube to them. They have 30 seconds to try to achieve penetration while only touching their partner's butt.
  43. Your partner lies on a bed or table while you perform oral on them, maintaining eye contact for 60 seconds. If they break eye contact, give them 20 spanks.
  44. Have your partner sit in your lap/you sit on their lap, grab any player's underwear and wrap them around their head or neck, use these as a guide while you make out with them.
  45. One partner sits cross-legged on the floor while the other sits in their lap with their legs around their waist - have a 30 seconds grinding session.
  46. Perform oral from behind on your partner while they kneel on all fours.
  47. One partner lies on their back, legs up and the other partner is kneeling/standing in front of them. Switch between penetrative sex, oral sex, grinding and back again for 2 minutes.
  48. Mutual fingering - each partner should have at least one finger in the other, wherever they choose, giving pleasure for 2 minutes.
  49. Try soaking - get close and intimate in your favourite penetrative position, but no thrusting or grinding for 30 seconds.
  50. Try edging - edge your partner to the point of climax, they must tell you when to stop. If they fail to stop in time, give them 30 spanks.
  51. Find a way to make your partner orgasm without using your mouth, hands or genitals - good luck!
  52. Use the toy of your choice on your partner for as long as you see fit.
  53. Play Simon Says with your partner with your smutty instructions - if they act on something you didn't start with "Simon says..." then issue the punishment of your choice.
  54. Hands-only! Get a grip on your partner and see if you can't get them to completion using only your digits.